It’s no secret that many women love butt play, but can you orgasm from anal sex? Yes, but it takes some adjusting.
The anus is packed with nerves—including the pudendal nerve, which carries sensations to your labia and clitoris in women and to the penis in men. Stimulating these pleasure spots can help you reach climax.
How to Get Started
If you’ve never experienced an orgasm from the anal, it may take some time to figure out what turns you on and how to get there. But it is possible. The anus is packed with nerves, including the pudendal nerve which carries sensation to your vagina, labia, and clitoris (the G-spot). Stimulating these pleasure zones can lead to heavenly orgasms, especially if they’re stimulated together with other pleasure zones like the clit and penis.
A recent study by FiveThirtyEight analyzed data from a sexual pleasure survey and found that the top most reliable way to orgasm for women is through anal stimulation. This includes penetration from a male partner’s penis and self-pleasure, such as rinsing or licking the anus. While a male partner’s penis might feel great, some women prefer to stimulate their anus with a finger or a hands-free sex toy, such as nipple clamps.
Whatever you choose, it’s important to use lots of lube during anal play. This helps ensure comfort and can also help prevent STIs, especially when it comes to penetrative sex. It’s also a good idea to wash down there before starting anal play, as this can help avoid lingering poop and make the experience even more pleasurable. As always, you should also use a condom during anal sex to protect yourself from STIs and pregnancy.
Penis Stimulation
As with any erogenous zone, there are many ways to reach an anal orgasm. One way is to stimulate the penis during anal play. For example, a woman can rub her anus with her fingers or use a sex toy to lick the area and enhance sensations. Another method is to have a man tease the area with his tongue before penetration. This can be an intense experience for both partners.
Women can also get an anal orgasm by stimulating the clitoral ridge and clitoris during anal sex. For example, a woman can use her hands to gently massage the area around the P-spot and clitoral ridge. Some women say this type of stimulation feels a little like the feeling of tickling and leads to an orgasm.
In addition to anal play, women can also use a sex toy that stimulates the clitoral ridge during penetration. A dual-pump sex toy that lubricates the anal canal and clitoral ridge may help a woman reach an anal orgasm.
As with any sexual activity, it is important to make sure that both partners are comfortable and well-prepared. This includes using a lot of lube and taking it slow. It’s also a good idea to discuss anal sex with your partner beforehand and get his or her consent. For safety reasons, anal sex should always be done with a condom to avoid anal tearing and leaking.
Butt Stimulation
As with the clitoral area, anal play is very personal for each woman. It’s recommended to explore yourself first and only bring a partner into the mix once you feel comfortable. This can include experimenting with a butt plug, using a vibrator around the anal opening, or having your partner gently rub the area. Having your partner lick the erogenous zones before penetration can also increase pleasure.
It’s important to wash down the anal area before getting started and use lube. This is a nice courtesy to your partner, and it’s also necessary to prevent any unwanted anal infections. Lube should be used when penetrating the anus as well as for foreplay.
While the anal isn’t considered to be a primary sexual organ, it has a lot of pleasurable potential. Studies show that stimulating this region can trigger sexual arousal, which can lead to an orgasm. It is recommended to use a light hand when exploring this area and to be cautious of any pain or discomfort.
Anal stimulation can be a great way to build sexual pleasure, especially if you’re a beginner. It is also recommended to experiment with other erogenous areas, such as the clit, lips and tongue, genitals, and nipples. Each erogenous zone has different feelings that can produce some kick-ass orgasms. The most important thing to remember is that everyone is different, and what works for one person may not work for another.
Penetration
The anus contains one of the body’s highest concentrations of nerve spots that can be stimulated to reach orgasm. “An anal orgasm is a climax that’s caused by stimulation of the high-density nerve spots in the anus,” says Sheila Loanzon, MD, an obstetrician and gynecologist. “Just like a climax in the clit or a cock, an anal orgasm is a release of sexual tension.”
For women who enjoy penetrative anal play, penetration can be very pleasurable. Whether you use your partner’s finger, penis or a dildo, be sure to use plenty of lube. This is a crucial step that will help to prevent tearing of the anal skin, reduce pain and increase the pleasure.
If you’re new to penetration, start with a very light touch and work your way up to more pressure. Remember to communicate with your partner and to ask them to slow down or stop if you feel uncomfortable.
While the nipples, clitoral stimulation and anal penetration are all very pleasurable methods of reaching an orgasm, it’s important to not be afraid to explore other areas as well. In fact, the same study that found orgasm can be reached from anal play also showed that more sexual acts in a session increases the likelihood of a woman experiencing a full orgasm. Try incorporating oral and vaginal play into your anal play, and don’t forget to lick and kiss those nipples!