Licking, sucking, stroking and grinding your man’s dick gives him amazing, toe-curling orgasms. But, to make your oral sex sessions really rock, you need to use other techniques too.
For example, you can rub it against your cheeks, lips and breasts. Or, you can hold it in your hands to control the movement and apply pressure.
The Big O
In order to give a good dick sucking session, it is best to have plenty of saliva on hand. This will ensure there is no friction as you lick around the shaft of his penis and work your way to the head. If you have a favorite lubricant, it is always good to use this as well because it can add a whole other element of pleasure to the experience.
While it may seem tempting to use your teeth on his dick, this is usually not a pleasant sensation for most men. This is because the feeling of your gnashers grating on his dick can hurt his feelings and turn him off quickly. The best thing to do is to avoid using your teeth unless he tells you it feels OK and even then, you should only do so lightly.
Aside from rubbing, licking, and stroking, another great technique is to place one hand on the base of his penis and the other in your mouth and then stroke it up and down. Many men enjoy this because it gives them a sense of control and enables them to build up to climax. Make sure you follow his cues and remove your hand and mouth from his dick when he starts to get ready to cum.
If he’s into it, try fondling, caressing, tickling and massaging his testicles while you suck his dick. Adding this extra dimension of stimulation will turn your sessions up to 11.
The Frenulum
Probably the most sensitive spot on the penis is the frenulum, which sits on the underside of the head (AKA glans) and connects it to the foreskin. This little area of skin contains a bundle of nerves and for many people it feels super-arousing to touch.
For this reason it is a great idea to use lube on this area before you start to suck the head of the penis. This eliminates friction and makes the whole experience more pleasurable. The best lube for this area is saliva, but if you can’t get enough of the good stuff you can always try out one of the many fruity flavored lubes on the market.
You can also use your teeth on the head of the penis for added stimulation, but it is important to remember that this can be painful if done too hard. It’s usually best to leave the teeth alone and lick the head of the penis instead.
Another fun way to stimulate the head of the penis is to kiss it. This is a technique that is easy to master and will give your partner a ton of pleasure. It’s best to use some saliva on the lips as this will make the experience feel more exciting and arousing for both of you. You can also try alternating between licking and kissing for an extra boost of sensation.
The Base
Whether you’re talking dirty, sending him a sexy photo or just driving him mad with your attention, the key to giving him a mind-blowing blowjob starts long before you wrap your lips around his cock. It’s all about building suspense, planting the idea in his mind that he’s going to have his face planted against your mouth!
Use your fingers to caress the base of his penis. This is a very sensitive area and it’s likely to trigger his erection just as much as stroking his inner thighs or nipples. Grasping his penis is also a great way to get him salivating and ready for the mouthjob.
When you’re ready to take his penis into your mouth, lick it with your tongue from the base to the tip of the head, using varying degrees of pressure. Then slowly begin to stroke it up and down with your mouth. Don’t go all the way in, but only about 1 to 2 inches – that’s enough to give him a good orgasm.
As you stroke, watch for his cues so that you know when to slow down or speed up. Don’t rush, though – a good throat job takes time to perfect! If he looks at you as you’re doing this, make eye contact and grin. This will amplify the sensations for him and tell him that you’re enjoying himself too!
The Head
The head of the penis is super sensitive. It’s probably the most pleasurable part of the shaft to lick and suck. You can also add some variation by kissing it every now and then. If you have wet lips, that’s even more pleasurable.
While you’re licking and sucking your guy’s dick, it’s also a good idea to occasionally stroke it. This will give him a different sensation than licking, and some guys really like the feel of a woman fondling their dicks. You can also use your hands to massage the anus and testicles. A lot of men have a hard-on for having their testicles stroked or even kissed during a blowjob.
Remember that not all guys can deep-throat, so don’t push the limits too much unless you know your guy’s comfort level. Also, it’s important to remember that the shaft of the penis is made of sensitive skin and may have a natural smell. To fix this, try covering it in a lubricant like maple syrup or chocolate syrup.
Having a good blowjob is more than just sucking, but if you do all of these things correctly, your guy should be orgasming harder than ever! Good luck with your suck fest! This Ultimate Guide is packed with tips, tricks and techniques to help you learn how to suck a guy’s dick like a pro.